I want to share a few paragraphs from my novel for young readers. The main character, Jack, was alone in the woods, separated from his party. He didn't have much experience with the wilderness so he was a bit jumpy. More than that. He was scared. So when he heard a noise coming toward him, he expected to confront a bear or mountain lion. He didn't know there were even more dangerous things in the woods.
Here is the excerpt:
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Jack had not seen any dangerous animals in all the time he
had been in the forest, but he believed there could very well be some lion or
bear nearby. He stood up and made himself look large. He picked up a sturdy
branch. It had a narrow smooth grip and it was rather flat at the larger end.
It was about the shape and size of a cricket bat. Jack thought it would do
nicely as a weapon against the approaching foe.
He stood at the ready and forced himself to breath slowly.
Show no fear! He was sure that was important. He heard the noise getting louder
and closer. He raised the weapon to his shoulder.
Just as he was about to turn and run, thinking that it would
be wiser than trying to bash the bear in the nose with a cricket bat, Jack saw
two people emerge from the trees. They were men, well young men. Boys really,
but older than Jack. They were dressed in plaid shirts, patched trousers and
thick soled boots. One wore a black rather sloppy hat. The other had a bandanna tied around his forehead but was bare headed. Both had rather greasy long hair
and just a bit of sparse beards on their chins.
“Will, we are in luck! We found a mess of vittles,” said the
one with the hat.
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“Not true, Tom. This banty gommer et ever blame thing his
self! What say we roast him. Shouldn’t take too long to cook.”
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Jack was targeted by these two bullies because he was smaller, he was less experienced and he talked differently. The older boys were aggressive and accustomed to stealing to get whatever the needed. They were scrappy, looking for a fight because it was their only source of entertainment. This situation could be very bad for Jack. But he handled himself well. He stayed calm but alert. He didn't cower to the boys. But I won't tell you how the scene plays out. That would be a spoiler.
My point is, bullying is a real danger in our society. October is national
Bullying Prevention Awareness Month. Bullying takes many forms. It can be physical, such as shoving or putting harmful objects in the locker. It can be verbal, such as name calling or spreading rumors. It can be carried out on the internet through social media sites and e-mail. The victims are usually kids, but adults are targeted sometimes, too.
This
video shows how one person eloquently quashed a bully who criticized her for being overweight.
Bullying is a learned behavior. Adults, be aware of what you say and the example you set. Do you laugh at someone's mistake, comment about their race, avoid mixing with people who are very different from you? Someone younger is watching and learning that behavior. If you are guilty of these habits, change begins with you. Grow up, stand up for what's right, and be a responsible citizen. Oh, and apologize to someone you have hurt.
You can take an active role against bullying. Bullies don't feel good about themselves. They enjoy pulling others down to their level. Many of them experience abuse from someone higher up the food chain and they just pass on the misery. A caring adult could find a way to intervene and set that kid on a new path.
Bullying can be resisted. Build up a good social circle and look after each other. Walk together. Stay in safe areas. Avoid putting yourself in a vulnerable place. Do not answer a verbal jab. Keep your posture natural and relaxed so you don't look like a target. Be physically strong and confident and learn a few basic defense techniques to use in case the bully gets physical. If you handle yourself well, you are less likely to be the target of a bully.